I hate swearing. I hate hearing people swear. I hate when I swear myself (yep, sometimes it still happens) and I have wracked my brain for the last 21 years trying to pin down why it bothers me so much. Everyone that knows me, already knows all this.
Over the years I've had countless conversations with all sorts of people on both sides of the believer fence about this subject. We've had the
- "out of the heart the mouth speaks" conversations
- fresh water/bitter water/same well conversations
- exploring why words are offensive, who makes them offensive (the speaker or the hearer) and why they are offensive
- discussions about the psychological and emotional affect to both the speaker of the words and the hearer of the words (and why some even believe it's beneficial to swear)
And probably more conversations with other angles I can't even remember. One of the things I've always found odd about such conversations is that some people go out of their way to justify why it's not only okay, but good. To cuss or swear. I find that odd because one would think if it's good or beneficial there would be no reason to explain why. Like brushing your teeth, or wearing a coat when it's cold. It would be obvious and/or common sense to most adults why such things are done, without any explanation needed.